Remembering the Power of Our Connections | Accelerate Success with Lorraine Moore

I am in love with my partner. I am not referring to my husband of over 30 years although I love him lots and he is the one I lean on the most. I am referring to my smartphone. From anywhere in the world I can pay bills, transfer money, reserve library books, make dinner reservations, book flights, respond to clients, compose my next book, refer to a map, read the newspaper, and more. It is ubiquitous and wonderful and addictive.

This week I was reminded of the joy and unmatched benefits of personal connection.

Yesterday I stopped to pick up a book I had on hold at the library. Reading two to three books per week, I am a big fan of downloaded books and automated book return and check out. This time I did not have my library card with me so I stopped at the desk with my ID.

The librarian expressed excitement at my choice of book – the latest in a series and hot off the press. We compared notes on our favourite characters and the witticism of the author. It reminded me of the many visits to our local library in London, Ontario. Our daughter, Beth, read a book a day during the summer and we would have great discussions with Elizabeth, the young and lively children’s librarian.

Then this past evening I spent a wonderful evening with three girlfriends discussing a variety of interesting topics from work, to politics, board work, spouses, life changes, children and what we would champion if we were First Lady. As I drove home on that lovely summer evening, I was filled with gratitude for their friendships.

Of late, I have been sitting in airport lounges every week as I travel to meet clients, attend board meetings, conferences and speaking engagements. More and more often I see other travellers connecting with loved ones by video rather than text or voice. We need these face to face connections. It is why most of us are so adept at reading facial expressions. We are meant to connect. We know this. I am not telling you anything new. But I expect, like me, many of you need the reminder periodically.

Incidentally, researchers are discovering that children are not developing the ability to read and respond to facial expressions – as quickly – when they spend too much time interacting with screens. This lack of capability is also seen with sociopaths. Another reason to monitor screen time for the young people in your life.

And the book that the librarian and I were discussing? The Grave’s a Fine and Private Place by Alan Bradley – the 7th in his series featuring the indomitable 12-year-old Flavia de Luce.

How will you connect this week?

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