Recently I was asked this question during an interview. It is a common question, often asked of professional athletes, business owners, corporate executives, and others who have achieved a perceived level of success or mastery. It is worth asking yourself this question once in a while, particularly when faced with a decision, of either a personal or professional nature.
Your answer points to your priorities, and identifies your values.
When executives are seeking a professional change, either imposed upon them or of their own volition, I ask them to consider this question. Often, they speak of the relationship they have with family, the jobs they have created for employees, or the courageous decisions that they made. I have yet to have anyone identify the amount of money they made, although I have heard stories of how they were able to help others as a result of the income and wealth that they generated. This has included supporting not-for-profits, research efforts for disease, provision for environmental causes, scholarships and bursaries.
Other responses often relate to risks taken, new paths that were forged, and fears that were overcome. Sometimes people are most proud of how they weathered adversity, even though they would not wish the experience on anyone.
Following the recent tragic death of Kobe Bryant, his daughter Gianna, and the others on his helicopter, the accolades and memories speak of course, to Kobe’s incredible athletic career, Gianna’s skill on the court, and the professional contributions made by the coaches and others. But what the adults are most remembered for are their roles as parents, partners, friends, and community members. It was what they did in their personal time that reflects greatly on who they were and what they valued. That is what they are being remembered for.
What are you most proud of? There is much wisdom in your response.
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